| Dating Tip Seducing Your Sweetie
Seduction is more about creating an illustration than jumping your date's bones. Seduction is about a carefully timed touch, a lingering caress, a gentle kiss.
These techniques work just as well on both sexes!
As your date is talking, gently interrupt them by touching their arm and then making a comment. Let them begin talking again and when it's time to refill their drink, lightly put your hand on their forearm, leave it there and say, "Just a moment, let me get the waiter."
By gently touching your date, it starts to create an emotional, non-threatening bond between you. Even if your date doesn't like your touching them, the more you do it the more they become convinced that you are just a toucher and, therefore, okay.
At the end of the evening, kiss your date on both cheeks. If nothing else, it's romantic without being gushy. It also creates a desire to see you again. Thank them for the evening, wink, and go in your house.
Hint: to keep the interest high, wink at your date right before you close the door.
On the second date, keep doing everything you did on the first date as far as gently touching them in a non-sexual way. At the end of the date, you hold their fingertips in your hands loosely, kiss them again on both cheeks, keep looking them in the eyes, smile slightly and raise their fingertips to your lips and kiss them. Still do not kiss your date on the lips yet.
The third date is where you make your move. You've already established a very high comfort level by gently touching your date on the arm, you've created a undercurrent of sexual interest by not jumping on your date's bones every opportunity you get, and the third evening you will practically have your date quivering for more.
At the end of the date, tell them to shut their eyes, gently kiss their eyelids and then kiss them. Things should progress rapidly from there!
Goal of the Week
Practice the above techniques!
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