How Do You Get A Woman To Trust You?
Posted on March 25, 2011 by Kelly Hamilton.
Although online dating has become an established and normal way of meeting people, a lot of women are still skittish of men whom they meet from online dating personals. We’ve all heard of the stories – deception, lack of commitment, long distance relationships, and a lot more. Scary things can happen too, if they decide to go on an actual date. So what do you do if you’re looking for “the” girl but you don’t want to scare her away on your first online date? Well, for one, you need to be patient so you can develop her trust.
Don’t press for her personal information especially when you’re still in the getting-to-know phase. Don’t ask for her real name, her address, or phone number on your first chat. Keep the conversation light and fun so you she’ll have time to get comfortable with you.
Don’t push her for a face-to-face meeting or she might think of you as desperate, or a sexual predator. Again, patience is the key to success. Wait for her to make the suggestion – then you’ll know it’s time for your relationship to move forward.
Be honest about yourself – whether you think you’re not attractive enough or you don’t have the perfect job is not of consequence. Keep in mind that if you’re looking for a lasting relationship from free dating sites, then you’ll have to start it right. A good relationship has never been, and probably never will be, built upon lies and deceit. And besides, if you start dating personally, she’ll find out the truth anyway. If you lie about anything and she learns about it, then you’ll probably end up back at square one or worse, have lost her trust completely.
So how do you tell her about yourself without pressuring her into giving you some information? Dating experts agree that when it comes to singles online dating, a picture is worth a thousand words. Post pictures of yourself doing your daily activities. Whether it’s going on a fishing trip or any other fun activity – make sure you document things so that you can share them with her and build trust. Of course, make those full body shots not just head shots, after all, in the real world, she won’t just see your head.
Once the discussion about a face-to-face date has been opened, then you can suggest a meeting in a very public place. A favorite among individuals who use dating agencies is the coffee shop (this assumes you’ve been speaking for awhile – coffee shops might not be the best spot for an initial date with no established foundation – see 5 Bad First Date Ideas for more on that). Here you can meet casually and try to
get comfortable. Then, you can decide on a more intimate date, if both of you feel like it. Or you can continue to have casual conversations as friends. What’s nice with a coffee shop is that the ambience is noncommittal and causal which helps relieve both the tension of a first in person meeting.
Of course, you’ll also need to remember that there’s a big difference between being aggressive and confidence. You’re not trying to close a business deal, so be comfortable, and you can be assured that she will also be relaxed with your company. Your first offline date is a start of something bigger; hence, make sure you move slowly so you don’t scare her away.
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